Kate dearie... wake up ur idea.

Today, i lost respect for Kate Hudson. And possibly Goldie Hawn too cos she probably imparted her "wisdom" to Kate. Maybe i shd call it wisdoom.

I always thought she was rooted, not the crazy party goer wasting her life away... But her quote shocked me.

Source: Perez Hilton (there is the gay dude who rubs shoulders with all the celebs and post their stories online...)

“As primal beings, men are not supposed to be monogamous. When people ask, 'Do you believe in monogamy?’ Well, of course that's what you want. But part of what I love about men is that it's hard for them to be monogamous. Women, I think, need to spend more time understanding men than changing men. And vice versa.” Kate in Harper's Bazaar...

** Cricket sounds**

Fallacy number 1: What makes her think tht only MEN cannot be monogamous? If anything, we're all polygamous, men, women, dogs, cats, lions, tigers, seals...

Falacy number 2: Us being polygamous is one thing, but SAYING tht men is polygamous and therefore u just accept them to be is another.

Fallacy number 3: Unless she thinks she's dating men of equal order thinking as animals, sure, she better get tested for rabies then. Even if we were all intrinically hardwired to be polygamous due to survival instincts (ie u mate more get more offspring), higher order thinking differentiates human beings from animals because we are capable of reason. Capable of deeper emotions and feelings.

FORTUNATELY, her comments met with some angry retaliation from readers, who are miles more discerning and have a bit more sense than she does.

#76 - Ohreally says:
She is setting the tone in all of her relationships if she is actually saying these things to the men that she dates, what a dumb b*tch!!!!

#27 - B*TCH PLEASE! says:
IF YOU’RE GONNA BE A HOE, BE A HOE. DON’T TRY TO JUSTIFY IT WITH YOUR PRIMAL BEING BULLSHIT. AIDS, ANYONE?

many more at http://perezhilton.com/?p=3286#respond

Another except from People.com today, she speaks about Dating as a Single Mom...

"Dating becomes very different," the actress, 28, tells Harper's Bazaar for its September issue (on sale Aug. 21). "You realize after you have had children that you'll never love anything more than your child. ... So it makes the new sort of single-mom dating process very different. It's like growing up. It's adult."

But Hudson says she is still learning about romance. "A friend of mine said the greatest thing to me," she tells the magazine. "When it comes to relationships, unfortunately you've just got to be a grown-up. It doesn't mean you can't make mistakes; it doesn't mean you can't be a kid. ... But when it comes to the work of it, you just have to grow up... "

Still, when it comes to the prospect of getting married again, "I don't know. I checked that off my list of to-dos. And I can check off divorce," she says. "The idea of marriage, I realize now, no longer holds the answer to anything."

Precocity is a hollywood child star syndrome. But i didn't expect Kate to be so dumb. She only realised she has to be an adult now? Not before she gave birth, not after she gave birth, but only when she starts dating as a single mom. How can a child take care of another life?

And now she doesn't believe in marriage anymore, for someone like her she's better off not married cos she doesn't know what it is.

It infuriates me that Celebrities say such things. They need to be responsible for their lifestyle cos the world looks up to them.

You don't get married cos its time to get married (and it wasn't even time for Kate cos she was only 20!), u don't get married only cos u are passionate about the person... And u don't get divorced cos u're no longer passionate about the person!

Marriage is the highest level of commitment that 2 people can give each other cos u're promising tht only death parts you and nothing else. You are making this commitment to God and to loved ones to take care of each other. I agree that some people think there is no need for an establishment to seal commitment and i respect that, but i don't respect losing faith in it because u don't have a freaking clue what it means.

So ridiculous isn't it?